Okie dokie O’Shields, that’s a wrap
Guidance counselor Paula O’Shields will retire this year after having served Fayette County for 31 years.
Her teaching career began in 1990 at Fayette County High School before moving to Starr’s Mill during 1997 and 1998. O’Shields originally taught math, and taught every single math class except Algebra and AP Calculus. It wasn’t until 17 years of math had gone by that she decided to become a counselor, and has been doing so ever since.
“I got my counseling degree thinking that would be another way to help kids if things changed,” O’Shields said. “If I wasn’t being effective as a math teacher or for whatever reason, if I wanted to make a difference that counts for something that I wanted to do, so I went ahead and got that degree.”
O’Shields has a Master’s in Math Education, a Master’s in High School Counseling, and a specialist’s degree in administration. For her undergraduate program, O’Shields went to the University of Georgia before going to West Georgia for her Masters degrees.
All of these achievements and drive for the education field however began no place else than her high school, Screven County High School. A difficult math teacher that would leave O’Shields helplessly confused would surprisingly turn out to be a huge impact in O’Shields’ life.
Originally, O’Shields wanted to be a history teacher because of another inspirational teacher at Screven. After realizing her chances were stacked against her being told that most history teaches dual as football coaches, O’Shields decided to go into the math field to imitate a teacher she admired and to prove she was capable of difficult mathematics.
“I’m going to go and I’m going to try to teach people that they can do the math,” O’Shields said. “It might be harder, it might take longer, it may be crazy at times, but with enough patience, and trying, and redoing, and attention, you too can do the math. You are smarter than the math.”
O’Shields and her husband got married during her second year of teaching, and right around this time before they had kids she got her additional degree in counseling to have a career secure in case she wanted to do something later on.
O’Shields then had her children Kyle and Katelyn, and in 2007 she took Trudy Roger’s place in the guidance counseling office. The dynamic change certainly posed different perspectives of rewarding challenges for O’Shields, as now instead of getting to know the lighthearted side of students on a daily she now got to experience the heavier and deeper aspects that students were going through.
“It’s hopefully still making a difference,” O’Shields said. “A lot of times we don’t see the difference until later on, and that’s okay. We don’t need to know the difference so long as you all turn out successfully, and productive, and are able to follow along and become productive citizens.”
One of the biggest changes that O’Shields noted was that being a counselor is different from being a teacher in the aspect that a counselor’s job doesn’t necessarily end when the school day does. Students may come up to her at the park or a baseball game, but whenever she is needed, O’Shields is there to listen and do her job.
No matter which position O’Shields was in, however, the ultimate thing she loved about being a teacher and counselor at Starr’s Mill was the constant interactions with the students and the livelihood they brought to each day.
The most lively and favorite memories from O’Shields career involve both teachers and students, being rescued by a coach who closed up the stadium for graduation and O’Shields was trapped inside, or every desk, chair, drawer and other items in her classroom turned upside down by her students for a prank.
“Surround yourself with people you want to be like, because that’s who you’ll be,” O’Shields said.
Overall one of the greatest things that O’Shields values from Starr’s Mill is the family-like friendships. The most notable example of this to O’Shields would be a time when graduation was moved last minute into the gymnasium and it ended up being the best graduation ceremony yet.
O’Shields is not entirely certain yet of what she would like to do after this, but she is undoubtedly looking forward to what’s to come and to spending a lot more time on family and making more friends outside of the school environment. Among all of this excitement, however, there is still a very hard-driven counselor. She is doing everything to make sure these last few weeks of school go well for everybody as well as preparing her predecessor as best as possible for the job she’s soon to leave.
“I think I’m leaving behind some good co-workers that are going to be able to bring [Meshanna Marcus] in,” O’Shields said. “I’m going to be meeting with her some, in the next few weeks, kind of teaching her… they’ll take good, good care of her.”
O’Shields is confident with the Starr’s Mill faculty, and especially in the hands that Marcus will be in as the new counselor. The biggest word of advice O’Shields has to leave behind for anyone is to simply think of everything one has going on and how to be most beneficial to their needs.
“Keep your whole self in mind, don’t challenge and push yourself just because everybody else is doing it,” O’Shields said. “Do what’s appropriate for you, but also leave time for you… You need time with friends, [and] you need time with family.”
laurie Molleson • May 18, 2021 at 7:47 pm
Paula made our sons high school experience as their counselor. She also taught math to my husbands older son. So you could say Paula’s been a part of our lives for years. A very close part the last 5. She is one of the most compassionate and empathetic people I’ve ever met. She truly gives from the heart and anyone can tell she loves what she does. She’s leaving some big shoes to fill. She’s got a gift with the high schoolers and we were so lucky to get to know her and she will never what a huge impact she’s had on our boys. Best of luck in your retirement! XO The Mollesons
Amy Cole • May 18, 2021 at 7:43 pm
Paula has been a wonderful counselor and such a gift to our family! Her advice and genuine concern for our boys’ individual needs was always excellent ! She will be missed! Only wish she coukd hang around longer for our daughter to come through! Congratulations and best wishes 💕💐
Chrissy O'Neal • May 18, 2021 at 2:42 pm
Friendship according to David Goetsch …………”In the eyes of God, friendship is an outwardly-focused concept. It’s about service to others rather than service to self. But it’s even more than that. God has specific expectations of what a friend must be willing to do for a friend. These expectations include: 1) remaining loyal and helpful during good times and bad, 2) speaking the truth (tactfully) even when it hurts, 3) demonstrating the kind of love described in 1 Corinthians 13, and 4) being willing to lay down one’s life should the need arise. This final expectation as set forth in John 15:13 is the ultimate test of Biblical friendship. ”
This is Paula O’Shields to me!! Blessed to have my friend for life!!
Gail Burns • May 18, 2021 at 11:41 am
Paula is a wonderful role model for students, teachers and parents.
Well done, my good and faithful servant” Matthew 25:23